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Mother! How beautiful word!

 

A son was running with the uprooted liver of mother.  When he fell down some where else on the way the liver asked from his hand:  “Oh, my dear son, did you feel pain?”
It may be a story made by a poet for showing the excessive feeling of a mother.  But, it shows the nobility of a great existence known mother; as it can be understood from the Prophet’s word: ‘the paradise is under the feet of mother.’  
Basheer, the novelist, wrote about his mother who waited for him in midnight preparing food when he returned to his house after long years.  ‘Mother’s heart is a court which forgives every sin’- keshardev wrote. The nobility of mother has been praised a lot in the novels like the novel of ‘Gorki’, in many stories, movies and so on. 
One of the famous poets wrote from Delhi about a mother, “I was puzzled when entered with them to the room.  Mother is caressing her son: “Mera ladly Beta, mera min hayya, mera chand beta”. Oh! I saw that son, a dirty figure with a beard, moustache, round head with bent arms and legs, large stomach and totally in an ugly shape.  He was making some what sound and his mother sat very nearer to him.  Placing the head of son in her lap, she poured out milk in his opened mouth.  This condition has been continuing for 25 years. 
Poetess asks: ‘Oh God! Who can do this except a mother?’
The same time it is the country witnessed the throwing of a baby into the waste box for his physical deformity. We heard the stories of infants like this left in hospitals, toilets and shop verandas. Babies in ‘Mother Cradles’, established in the capital of kerala infant welfare association at Thaikavu in Thiruvanandapuram, have been given up like the above. In India, Jayalatitha , the former chief minister of Tamil nadu, brought firstly this system, which is similar to the baby bags in western countries. The primitive practice of killing infants soon after their birth is more there. 
Mother Cradles’ as the name indicates is a very touching method.  This is an excellent idea provides much protection to abandoned infants.  It is very clear that any mothers never forsake their infants merely. The prompting factors behind this might be poverty and the disgrace caused by the delivery of unmarried women.  Facilities may be available for rich people to give birth to infants from other states and to entrust them to orphanages very secretly. 
If a middle class woman gets a child illegally, in neighboring states there is a mafia works to buy those infants and sell them to other couples who haven’t children.  Mother who abandons their children in cradles may wish having goodness in their infants.  When they feel guilt, they may come with claims.  It was an Autoriksha driver who saved the life of Chinnu, a three and half years old child, who wandered at Thambanoor bus stand at thiruvanandapuram.  When this story was reported in news papers, two women-one from thiruvalla and the other from Andhra- claimed the maternity of the child. These two cannot prove their arguments. 
Claims often reach in courts.  Years before, a man from Pala escaped to Kerala with his children who were born in a Germen doctor. It was an agreed relationship. He did it when their relationship was disrupted. Nevertheless, Hebius corpus came as boon to the German lady to regain her children.  Often the sincere decision of children helps father or mother in this kind of incidents.  It happened in the case of Retnaprabha.  In this case media was waiting to know weather the truth and Justice is with Rathnaprabha or Raj. 
In many cases paternity is suspected. Maternity is always definite. It is said that ‘mother is a reality and father is a myth’. But today Genetics has developed to the level of proving paternity very scientifically. Science supports the tribunal to find those fathers who like to escape abandoning there children along with wives. 
The progress of science and technology opens new fields of apprehension.  Today we have the facility to foster babies in the rented wombs mixing semen and ovum without sexual intercourse.  Who is the real mother? Weather the owner of ovum, the rented of the delivered? These types of questions are not at all significant here.  It is sure that she who rented her womb for ten months cannot claim maternity.  The new born Child’s relationship may be with his or her foster-mother.  Nowadays, this system of renting womb is a profession in western countries.  The rent also is very high. 
Recently we heard about a woman from Gujarath settled in England that she had declared her readiness to rent her womb.  Firstly, she had not agreed conceiving the twins of her daughter who lost the ability of delivering children, for she affected a strange disease known Rokitency.  But when she was convinced by doctors that there was nothing as immoral in it, she became ready for this adventure.  (Any how she is an Indian) Taking decisions concerning the virtues of incidents of this kind isn’t much easy.  Media reports the news of women who say no to depart babies after renting wombs and delivering children.  Here the problem is emotional.  It will take place in case of adopted sons too. 
The wife of a Muslim youth dislikes her mother. She has been fostered in the protection of her aunt was the cause.  Her foster mother hadn’t children.  But her mother had four children.  So the mother let her daughter foster in her sister’s house.  Later on, this daughter could realize that the foster mother wasn’t the real mother.  It caused to emerge hatred in her mind.  She began to blame her mother for lacking maternal love by contributing her only among their children to another one’s hand.  Even though other people tried to convince her the hatred remains unfolded. 
Science does not regard moral and emotional parts of an issue except practical sides.  For the existence of maternal love, the child should be fostered in mother’s protection.  Maternity is a merged factor in female’s blood.  How early does female child start her preparation to be a mother patting dolls and feeding them mud-rice!  With the first delivery itself, her all love is centered to child.  No scientist discovered a relationship so pure as between mother and child.  Every religion and ideology considers it as a sacred bond. Literates and artists eulogize it.  When we think of it excessively we remember....... 
Mother - how beautiful word! Mother, who suffered everything for the sake of children!  Mother the embodiment image of enduring!  Will all these equations come to a close in the flow of age? How long the symbols of morality and Justice will exist in society when those itself are driven out?

 


 
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